Gripe all you like about men calling you "entitled," but the plain fact is that if you expect men to buy your attention with money, you are selectively going out with men who will feel entitled to the other side of a transactional relationship.

I would strongly recommend you read some of the research on the connections between what is sometimes called "benevolent" sexism and what is sometimes called "hostile" sexism. C.f. Amy Yeung's research below:

https://uwspace.uwaterloo.ca/handle/10012/13207